My new article on Relationship Coach Finder:
As a dating coach, I hear this sentiment all the time: “There are no good men/women in my town,” or “The ratio of men to women is terrible where I live.”
Now if you live in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere, there might be some truth to this, but most of you live where there is no shortage of eligible men and women. Honestly, no matter where you live or who you are looking for, if you know how to harness the law of attraction; you will find your ideal partner. The Universe will find a way for you to meet.
WHAT IS THE LAW OF ATTRACTION AND WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT?
Simply put, it is a universal law that says we will attract into our lives what we focus on. Whether it is positive or negative, whether you are aware of it or not, every thought you have and every emotion you feel affects your reality.
If you have been hurt by a past relationship, if you are frustrated by the dating process, if you have a bad attitude in general about dating or relationships, you will continue to draw those experiences to yourself. It is as if potential partners can see your beliefs written on your forehead. There really is no way to hide it. The good news is you are in control of what comes into your life. Once you learn how to use the law of attraction, you can manifest the partner that is perfect for you.
IT ALL STARTS WITH YOUR THOUGHTS.
This is where the true power lies and is the start to any successful dating experience. You first have to know what you want to attract and then believe it is possible to have it. Changes start by becoming aware of your prominent thoughts. I suggest you spend some time making a list of all the thoughts and beliefs you have about dating, men/women, and relationships. Write down the good and the bad thoughts. This will give you an idea of which ones need your attention. Remember, you get what you focus on. How often are you thinking thoughts that are not taking you in the direction you want to go? Probably more often than you realize.
The next step is to write down a list of empowering thoughts. Empowering thoughts are the ones that make you feel good, motivate you, and make you feel more confident. It is time to start changing your beliefs and you do that by changing your thoughts; one thought at a time.
Some ideas to get you started:
To read the rest of the article: https://www.relationshipcoachfinder.com/coaching-articles/dating-using-the-law-of-attraction
Lori Ann Davis, MA, CRS
Certified Relationship Specialist